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There’s an old saying “You are what you think you are” in other words, if you think you are a failure then you are a failure, if you believe you are a achiever then you are an achiever. It’s what you believe, which controls the destiny of your life.
At the beginning of chapter one reading it used the example of a shoe factory sending out two of the scouts to examine the country of Africa. Both viewed the same thing “no one wears shoes”, but each one of them had a different report. One scout thought it was hopeless and the other felt it was a great opportunity. Same situation, however, the perspective of each scout was different.
Last week I went to a “Get Motivated” seminar. There were a platform of several famous people all sharing their story on what the problem was, how they felt, and what did they did to get motivated. There were a few speakers talked about their drought moment. They felt discourage, angry, and in some cases suicidal, but some how they made a connection to God. In each case, there was a force from up above, using surrounding people as a vessel to encourage each speaker to lift their spirit up and stop dwelling on their own sorrows and realize there were others who suffered too. Although there were many speakers the one that stood out the most to me was John Walsh’s story.
For those of you who do not know John Walsh, he was the man whose son, Adam, was adducted and killed at a young age. From that incident John and through the help of his wife and friends created American Most Wanted show. John told the audience how he felt after hearing his son was murdered. His wife who was devastated as well was in the garage reading bundles of letters they received from other parents who shared the same pain. Meanwhile, John was sitting in his living room entertaining thoughts about killing him. Later, with the help of a pathologist doctor he changed his way of thinking and created the show. The point I wanted to draw out was the fact although both John and his wife shared the same devastating news, it was their son who was murdered, the wife put her anger into reading letters of other victims and had the passion to help, whereas, at time John was only thinking of himself.
What if John commented suicide what would have happen to his wife, friends, or would there be an American Most Wanted show? I was always told God send angels to help you through you tough time, in John’s case, that pathologist doctor was his angel. Because of his angel, John show was a success in capturing many other criminals as well as helping others find closure. I believe, you can change a bad situation into something positive and truly will be blessed as long as you change your perspective into positive energy.
That sounded like a great seminar. You know I have always been a positivity seeker. Might be just me but it seems like every sense I started reading this book I am met with more affirmations and people who inspire me. Must be Kismet.
ReplyDeleteWhat if John commented suicide what would have happen to his wife, friends, or would there be an Hey Angela,
ReplyDeleteI love your blog you are so right the what if always fascinated me. what if there was no America Most wanted show?
I believe, you can change a bad situation into something positive and truly will be blessed as long as you change your perspective into positive energy.
Is they way that I try to live my life. It is the experience that create the journey and it is the Journey that we are on.
The comment “you are what you think you are” forms so many people’s lives. Yet there are some people who feel that they are what others tell them they are. It is hard to come into your own personal understanding of yourself. Yesterday a fellow teacher received an e-mail from our principal. She was told she would be leaving Kindergarten to teach second grade. She has been teaching kindergarten for 10 years. It is the only grade level she has taught. She has a great rapport with all the teachers in the school, parents, and students. She also has a desire to be a facilitator. All she could ever see herself as was a kindergarten teacher. In order to see herself as a facilitator she has realized through some tears, thought, and understanding in order to be what she thinks she is, she has to put in the work. No matter what other people told her, she has to come to the realization for herself. She changed her perspective into positive energy and is now excited about this new challenge.
ReplyDeleteAngela,
ReplyDeleteI can so identify with a lot of what you said. comments like,"I believe, you can change a bad situation into something positive and truly will be blessed as long as you change your perspective into positive energy." drive it home for me on so many levels. I find myself watching movies like "The Secret", or reading books like "The power of intention" by Dr. Wayne Dyer and "The Book of Secrets" by Deepak Chopra. Life is an inside job! For so many people self worth is a huge issue in people becoming motivated. We carry feelings of shame and guilt around for so long. Part of my story is, I am the only person in my family to graduate college. For the longest time I let that statement hold me back from becoming more than I thought I should fit into. Thanks for sharing your insight!